A Love Expert Updated Our Tinder Profiles

By | August 11, 2019


– I’ve been told that I look
very eager in the profile. – I’m looking at a crotch shot. – I know. I’m sorry. – That’s not the kind of picture. – Swipe left. – Swipe left. (edgy music) – My name is Kelly and I’m here to get my Tinder profile updated. – I’ve been on Tinder.
I’ve been on Bumble. I don’t know how to start
conversations on the internet. – My current profile
on Tinder is not great. I even don’t think it’s that great. – I feel like she’ll look at my profile and be like, “This is pretty good.” At least, that’s what I hope. – I’m ready to open
myself back up to dating. I’ve been single for over a year now. – I wanna put myself out
there and see what I can do. – Let’s do this. – I’m Julie Spira. I’m an online dating
expert and dating coach and I’m going to whip some of these online dating profiles into shape. The good part about online dating is there’s more than
over 40 million singles in the United States alone that are using dating
sites and dating apps. – Why is it so hard? – I know. You ready to check them out? – Mobile dating boot camp, here we go. Okay, Ryann. So, I’m looking
at your Tinder profile and the first thing that
I see the group shot. – [Ryann] I know. – [Kelly] Ryann, we talked about this. – It’s nice to know that you have a posse but the fact is, they don’t
belong in your primary shot. Maybe it can be the sixth
photo, but not the first. – Yeah, that’s a number six. – Oh, we’ve got to get
you without sunglasses. – I’m literally always in them. – I love that picture,
except for the sunglasses. It’s good to list vistas that
you like to go because you need to make it easy for
somebody to ask you out. That says, “Take me out to the ball game.” – That’s also in Peru with a baby alpaca. – [Kelly] Why? – [Julie] I wasn’t sure
if it was a unicorn. It’s different. – Oh no. – That’s not a compliment. – And then the last one. It’s a pig? – It’s a pig. – [Ryann] Yeah, it’s a little piglet. – [Julie] Is it your pig? – [Kelly] It’s just a friends. – [Julie] Is it licking its’
tongue? What is it doing? – [Ryann And Kelly]
It’s licking its’ nose. – Oh, licking its’
nose. How sweet. I know. But, you want a boyfriend, not a pig. – I don’t know. – [Julie] “Not good at my bios.” Okay, I have to tell you something. Profiles that get the
swipes left are the ones that start off by saying,
“I’m sorry but…” Sexuality isn’t all about your body shape. It’s about walking into
a room and owning it. This is what’s great about you bio. Right up top it says
University of Pennsylvania and that screams, “I’m super smart.” It’s a real turn on to have somebody that can be in a boardroom and a bedroom. And you can do both. You ask a question in a profile and you have more people responding to you because they see that question mark and they’re given an instruction. Anything that can mirror to someone else’s has a greater chance a right swipe. – [Kelly] Okay – [Julie] Both of you have
the same homework assignment: That you need two new photos to replace the two I pulled down and you need to redo your bios saying where you’re from originally. Think of something unique and then ask a question. I have a lot of hope for the two of you. – Thank you. – Thank you so much. – Julie suggested that we get new photos for our Tinder profile and… – We’re gonna try. We’re gonna try. We’re gonna try. – We’ll do our best. I just realized I already broke rule. She said no sunglasses,
so they gotta come off. – Red is the color of love. There’s research that backs
up that more right swipes on people are wearing red. – Since we couldn’t find red shirts… – We’re just gonna have some fun with it. – Yeah, we’re gonna make it really fun. – Even though I’m nervous
to meet someone new, I’m also excited because even if it doesn’t work our romantically, friendships are important. – I’ve never been dating before, so I think that that’s the
most nerve wracking thing. What do I say? What do I do? What if I embarrass myself? Kelly and I are going
to take Julie’s advice and we’re about to start
messaging some boys. – I do have to say that his
profile specifically says that he comes from wealth. I just think that that’s
an obnoxious thing to point out in a Tinder profile. – Moving forward online
to get yourself offline and on a date is imperative. Ask them a question. And if you can use their first name, suddenly you personalize the experience and you’re one step further along than a person who just says, “Hey”. – I was swiping earlier today and I matched with this guy and we were just texting a little bit and just decided to go get
drinks tomorrow after work. So, it’s pretty cool. – So, I did start swiping a little bit and I got one Super
Like with the blue star and the person that Super Liked me if someone I’ve dated already. Mmm, doing not great. – You might write ten people and only one person will write back and that’s just the way
the number game flows. – It is like applying for jobs. – Accept for love’s supposed to be for the rest of your life, potentially. So, why are we not putting the same amount of energy into our love lives? – [Kelly] That’s a good point.
– [Ryann] That’s so true. – I work a lot more I love. So, I just matched with a guy named Max and we’ve been talking a little bit and I think I’m going
to ask him to hang out because this is all about
putting myself out there, so, we’ll see what happens. – I get ready, get dressed, and get ready to go out tonight and he just texts me about ten minutes ago. We’re about an hour away from when we’re supposed to
meet and he canceled. It looks like I got stood up. On the bright side of things, I did match with another guy named Phola. I messaged him to see if
he might wanna go out. Kelly already found a date, too. So, we’re going to try to
turn it into a double date and see if tomorrow night
works out better than tonight. – My experience on Tinder and Bumble was really just finding people that didn’t look dangerous. And I’ve read a lot of
articles about things that really haven’t gone well
for people that date online. – I convinced Kelly to go
on a double date with me. – We’re going together. – Yeah, we’re a little bit… – But I have someone coming too. – Yeah. – Yeah, we’re gonna do a
little double date. So… – And we’re not gonna get murdered. – Right. – Because we have each other. – [Ryann] Or we’ll get…
– [Kelly] Or we’ll both get – [Kelly] murdered.
– [Ryann murdered together This is Phola. Say hi. – Hi. – Yeah, so were on a double date actually so Max and Kelly are also here. – And this is Max. – Hey guys. – He agreed to be on camera with me. So, good guy already. It’s nice to go with a friend just because it’s more
comfortable automatically and I think the two guys also
had fun meeting each other. There was no awkwardness. If anything, it just felt
like a nice group handout. I think Max is somehow making me nervous because I just dropped
like half my sandwich all over my pants. – So we didn’t get murdered. That’s always good. Meeting Phola was awesome.
He was a really nice guy. He was good looking and I’d like to explore that and see where
that relationship goes. – Having a love expert
go through my profile, it made me feel venerable,
but it also was good because she’s not a friend so she doesn’t know me personally. She just kind of said this
is what a stranger would see and this is what they would think. – I don’t know if Tinder’s
the best way to fall in love, but it’s definitely a great
way to meet new people and to kinda like put yourself
out there and just try it. – This week taught me it’s okay to be your goofy, weird self. Somebody who’s out there to Match you, just be open to them. – I liked online dating
because meeting people in real life is hard. (upbeat music)

100 thoughts on “A Love Expert Updated Our Tinder Profiles

  1. Shley Alyn Post author

    hahaha this is funny too… GUYS PAY ATTENTION!!
    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=WRjE0nmZBbc&feature=youtu.be

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  2. Gates of Gergovia Post author

    She's a 'dating expert', but doesn't know that no one reads profile text ?

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  3. Aberdolf Lincler Post author

    Shes reading these comments saying she looks like Nicolas Cage ๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚

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  4. ใฟใ•ใใ‚ใ„ Post author

    Sub 10 matches per week

    Lol

    try sub 10 matches per year

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  5. Unknown Identity Post author

    Its funny cuz its buzzfeed's vid. Hilarious ๐Ÿ˜€

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  6. Canaan's Photography Post author

    Wow… I haven't had a tinder match in like, two years, Jesus

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  7. Kate Post author

    ummmm cute animals are gonna be a swipe right for me

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  8. MRK Post author

    lol that last photo looks like a liquorice all sorts

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  9. Jacques Nicolay Post author

    Bruh, if you post a video on YouTube you better damn well have a straight guy as an example. This was so unhelpful.

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  10. Loor Post author

    Whatโ€™s wrong with the baby animals? The alpaca would make me swipe the dude

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  11. Bea Payumo Post author

    That dude reminds me of Rave Santa from EDC this year. ๐Ÿ˜‚

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  12. Shred Dead Redemption II Post author

    fun fact: lowering standards can improve your match numbers significantly!

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  13. Alex Andersson Post author

    YES my gay radar still works, called it 2 seconds in xD

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  14. Copperhead Post author

    What exactly qualifies a "love expert?"

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  15. Sean Schonberger Post author

    How does this woman look more like Nic Cage than Nic Cage?

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  16. Luna T Post author

    1960: In the future there will be flying cars! 2018:

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  17. Gordon Li Post author

    0:22 heโ€™s been on tinder but not on grinder yet

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  18. Every Hater Post author

    "When you meet me you may think that I'm an emotionless depressed sh*t, but once you peel off all the layers you'll start crying because you keep seeing the same thing over and over again" -My Tinder Profile

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  19. Bouchiba Ala Post author

    soo he is single , she is single …. she has friends , he has friends … idk arrange smthg for each other

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  20. apexperfection619 Post author

    What is Ryan doing on tinder he should be on grinder lol itโ€™s where he could make his own life easier

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  21. TheRezitinas Post author

    Any advice for straight dudes? The ones who need it most

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  22. chamboyette853 Post author

    Of course none of the people in there are white males. It's buzzed which picks people based on their ethnicity and gender and not their competence. That love expert was not great.

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  23. prallav kotian Post author

    hi buzzfeedvideo
    sir i have been seeing your couple of videos i dont know why am getting just 3 match and they are not active i just wont to know what your secretes of getting many matches and active message on tinder me from india.

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  24. Ultimate creative Wierdo Post author

    I seriously think I could do a better job of getting them dates ๐Ÿ˜‚

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  25. Klara Stern Post author

    "…we didn't get murdered- that's always good.."

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  26. Vishal Kumar Post author

    Half waythrough the video I realise that's a Black guy flipped out on girls permanently.
    And the Girl looks like an Ex-Olympia with such huge Structure.

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  27. Neal Sampson Post author

    Trying to find info on the profile photos with embedded moving images that blend into the surroundings? Any thoughts?

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  28. terese Post author

    I hope Max doesnโ€™t turn out to be a serial killerโค๏ธ

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  29. The Source Of A.T.G. Post author

    Ryann's pictures / profile at the end was real good! I need better pictures of myself

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  30. Jefferson Post author

    Please do a version with an averagish straight guy! I'd love to see how much they could improve their odds on the "hard mode" of Tinder.

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  31. KyleMatthew Raven Post author

    I dont even try when it comes to my tinder profile. I never know what to write in my bio i either write to much ir not enough. My super insecure and can never choose the right photos. I dont go to college cause u have to suport my family.

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  32. Joshua Rajotte Post author

    I love the content of you guys videos I just wish they were more relatable to me as a heterosexual male.

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  33. Dana White's double chin Post author

    Dating "expert" lol. Says who? Self proclaimed expert? What a joke

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  34. Dana White's double chin Post author

    Of course buzzfeed would pick 1 straight 1 gay… even though less than 10% of the population is gay

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  35. Robin Remy Post author

    Why don't they just go out together? I seriously question the expertise of that lady.. The solution was just there before her eyes. ๐Ÿ˜€

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  36. Alyssa Porter Post author

    when someone idk says my name in a text it feels super weird to me idk

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  37. aLERNO Post author

    WHAT AN ADORABLE GUY!!! I AIN'T gay, but come on, the guy is like a hughable teddy bear. Wish him all the best

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  38. nc airguner Post author

    They didnโ€™t get murdered but they both got fucked in the ass ! Thatโ€™s worst !

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  39. Husam Toonisi Post author

    Sooooo, they got a gay dude cuz getting girls on tinder is lowkey impossible…

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  40. Michelle C Post author

    Yep max is very cute but Damnnnn the guy that ryann met up is hotttttttttt.

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  41. Bananas Bread Post author

    They both seem like nice people. The woman has a nice smile and the man seemed a good jolly type. Good luck to them.

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  42. Skeptic Post author

    Wow, big surprise she picked the best looking guy she could find. But looks aren't that important, right ladies?

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  43. Frank Bishop Post author

    "Love expert?" Really? A pet psychologist can be a real thing. But, a love expert?

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  44. Third Street Saints Post author

    a love expert updated their Tinder profile so they don't get murdered. Wow… noice.

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  45. Bruce Dutton Post author

    ok real question if I have no friends how do I get the pictures

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  46. MissGlamBAM Post author

    Max seems so sweet, what a good idea the double date is! They all seemed so adorable together

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  47. Danjal Veskandar Post author

    <10 matches per week?

    So you're saying it's still >1 match per week…?

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  48. Carmen La Flor Post author

    Max was so much cuter in real life than in his pictures. That reminds me of not judging a book by its cover.

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  49. Jordon Bear it Post author

    This video would fail miserably if he were straight.
    At the end of the week he'd be in a deep depression lol

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  50. ใชใ‚‹ใ›ใ‚‚ใ—ใ‚‚ใ— Post author

    "Is that a chicken?"

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  51. Dennis Lauritsen Post author

    high education has nothing with intelligence smh

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  52. Navn Post author

    Max and the other guy can do better outside of Tinder. We're all thinking it, right?

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  53. yan zhao Post author

    Maybe itd be good to try that meet up apps. It's good to have a "I'm gonna try" attitude toward dating.

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  54. Shilpi Mahmoud Post author

    This girl reminds me of Maverick Baker

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  55. John Booth Post author

    Type at Google Tinder O Plus ->
    your salutation

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  56. AVOCADOS & AVOCADOS Post author

    Hereโ€™s some love advice that works and is free: BE YOURSELF AND DONT BE SOMEONE YOU ARENT

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  57. nikolas Vlamos Post author

    Took me a while to realize this girl's face looks like female Nicholas Cage

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  58. Willie Martin Post author

    Search next Google Tindero Plus ->
    Thank me later

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  59. Robert Sanchez Post author

    Search next Google Tindero Plus ->
    Sharing is caring

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  60. John Thompson Post author

    Search on Google Tindero Plus – You will learn yourself Thumbs up!

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  61. Donald Fischer Post author

    Write into Google Tindero Plus ->
    ur welcome

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  62. 666 mgtowkayaker Post author

    Tinder is garbage for men-i'm an attractive man but i would be lucky to get 1 or 2 likes a week so i tried a social experiment & made a fake profile for my love doll & put some sexy but tasteful photo's of my TPE love doll & she got 77 likes in the first 12hrs…lol

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